Good girl, bad girl? It’s hard for women to win. We either want sex too much, or not enough. Although female sexual pleasure was acknowledged in long-past eras, it was forgotten by the Victorian era and women were being diagnosed with “hysteria,” remedied by doctors inducing a “paroxysm” either by hand, or by electric vibrator after 1880. For years, women have been sold a bill of goods about what they want, which is the opposite of what most women really want. Some men are threatened by the idea of women wanting sex as much as, or more than, men. But let’s let that be their problem, ladies, not ours.

Read the entire article here: What Women Want Matters, A Lot: Welcome to the Sexual Revolution 2.0

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